The Role of Culture in Collaboration with Children, Families, Schools, and Communities
Ethnocentrism and Cultural Relativism
Despite how much humans have in common, cultural differences are far more prevalent than cultural universals. For example, while all cultures have language, analysis of particular language structures and conversational etiquette reveal tremendous differences. In some Middle Eastern cultures, it is common to stand close to others in conversation. North Americans keep more distance and maintain a large “personal space.” Even something as simple as eating and drinking varies greatly from culture to culture. If your professor comes into an early morning class holding a mug of liquid, what do you assume she is drinking? In the United States, it’s most likely filled with coffee, not Earl Grey tea, a favorite in England, or Yak Butter tea, a staple in Tibet.
The way cuisines vary across cultures fascinates many people. Some travelers pride themselves on their willingness to try unfamiliar foods, like celebrated food writer Anthony Bourdain, while others return home expressing gratitude for their native culture’s fare. Often, people in the United States express disgust at other cultures’ cuisine and think that it’s gross to eat meat from a dog or guinea pig, for example, while they don’t question their own habit of eating cows or pigs. Such attitudes are an example of ethnocentrism, or evaluating and judging another culture based on how it compares to one’s own cultural norms. Ethnocentrism, as sociologist William Graham Sumner (1906) described the term, involves a belief or attitude that one’s own culture is better than all others. Almost everyone is a little bit ethnocentric. For example, Americans tend to say that people from England drive on the “wrong” side of the road, rather than on the “other” side. Someone from a country where dog meat is standard fare might find it off-putting to see a dog in a French restaurant—not on the menu, but as a pet and patron’s companion. A good example of ethnocentrism is referring to parts of Asia as the “Far East.” One might question, “Far east of where?”
A high level of appreciation for one’s own culture can be healthy; a shared sense of community pride, for example, connects people in a society. But ethnocentrism can lead to disdain or dislike for other cultures and could cause misunderstanding and conflict. People with the best intentions sometimes travel to a society to “help” its people, because they see them as uneducated or backward—essentially inferior. In reality, these travelers are guilty of cultural imperialism, the deliberate imposition of one’s own cultural values on another culture. Europe’s colonial expansion, begun in the sixteenth century, was often accompanied by a severe cultural imperialism. European colonizers often viewed the people in the lands they colonized as uncultured savages who were in need of European governance, dress, religion, and other cultural practices. A more modern example of cultural imperialism may include the work of international aid agencies who introduce agricultural methods and plant species from developed countries while overlooking indigenous varieties and agricultural approaches that are better suited to the particular region.
Ethnocentrism can be so strong that when confronted with all of the differences of a new culture, one may experience disorientation and frustration. In sociology, we call this culture shock. A traveler from Chicago might find the nightly silence of rural Montana unsettling, not peaceful. An exchange student from China might be annoyed by the constant interruptions in class as other students ask questions—a practice that is considered rude in China. Perhaps the Chicago traveler was initially captivated with Montana’s quiet beauty and the Chinese student was originally excited to see a U.S.-style classroom firsthand. But as they experience unanticipated differences from their own culture, their excitement gives way to discomfort and doubts about how to behave appropriately in the new situation. Eventually, as people learn more about a culture, they recover from culture shock.
Pause to Reflect!
Discuss the following questions.
- Discuss the following questions.
- Reflect on how ethnocentrism might affect the dynamics between families and schools.
- How might cultural biases and assumptions from both educators and parents influence communication, expectations, and the educational experiences of students.
- How can recognizing and addressing ethnocentrism improve relationships and outcomes in the school community?
Cultural relativism is the practice of assessing a culture by its own standards rather than viewing it through the lens of one’s own culture. Practicing cultural relativism requires an open mind and a willingness to consider and even adapt to new values and norms. However, indiscriminately embracing everything about a new culture is not always possible.
Sometimes when people attempt to rectify feelings of ethnocentrism and develop cultural relativism, they swing too far to the other end of the spectrum. Xenocentrism is the opposite of ethnocentrism, and refers to the belief that another culture is superior to one’s own. (The Greek root word xeno, pronounced “ZEE-no,” means “stranger” or “foreign guest.”) An exchange student who goes home after a semester abroad or a sociologist who returns from the field may find it difficult to associate with the values of their own culture after having experienced what they deem a more upright or nobler way of living.
Perhaps the greatest challenge for sociologists studying different cultures is the matter of keeping a perspective. It is impossible for anyone to keep all cultural biases at bay; the best we can do is strive to be aware of them. Pride in one’s own culture doesn’t have to lead to imposing its values on others. And an appreciation for another culture shouldn’t preclude individuals from studying it with a critical eye.
Schools and communities must examine the role of ethnocentrism and xenocentrism in their interactions with children and families. This requires deep self-reflection, honesty, and cultural humility. It also requires that schools and communities view families and children from a strengths-based perspective by honoring their cultural capital and funds of knowledge.
Cultural humility is the lifelong practice of self-reflection and learning to understand and respect different cultural perspectives, recognizing one’s own biases, and engaging with others authentically and respectfully. It emphasizes openness, self-awareness, and the commitment to equitable and inclusive interactions. Cultural humility in education involves teachers acknowledging their own biases, continuously learning about different cultures, and engaging with families and communities in a respectful and collaborative manner.
Case Study (A)
Mr. Smith, a middle school teacher, has a new student, Amina, who recently arrived from a refugee camp in Syria. Amina’s family has faced significant trauma and disruption due to the war and their subsequent displacement.
Mr. Smith takes time to reflect on his own cultural background, beliefs, and potential biases. He acknowledges that he might have preconceived notions about refugees and consciously decides to approach the situation with an open mind and a willingness to learn. He
- attends a workshop on cultural competence and reads about the experiences of Syrian refugees to better understand Amina’s background.
- learns more about Amina’s cultural background, including the challenges her family might have faced and their cultural practices.
- reaches out to local refugee support organizations and community groups to gather information and resources that could help him better understand Amina’s needs.
- organizes a meeting with Amina’s parents, ensuring that an interpreter is present to facilitate effective communication.
- listens actively to the parents’ concerns, asks about their expectations, and shows genuine interest in their cultural practices and values.
- discusses various support options, such as language assistance and counseling services, and seeks the parents’ preferences and suggestions.
- includes stories and materials from diverse cultures, including Syrian culture, in his curriculum.
- pairs Amina with a peer buddy to help her navigate the new school environment.
Cultural capital refers to the non-financial social assets that influence an individual’s ability to succeed in society. These assets include education, intellect, style of speech, dress, and even physical appearance, which can grant social mobility and access to resources and opportunities. In an educational setting, recognizing and valuing the cultural capital of all families involves acknowledging and leveraging the unique strengths, knowledge, and experiences these families bring to the educational environment.
Case Study (B)
Ms. Garcia is a teacher at an early childhood education center. She has a new student, Sam, whose family is currently experiencing homelessness and living in a shelter. Ms. Garcia wants to ensure that Sam and his family feel valued and included in the classroom community. She
- takes time to learn about the experiences and strengths of Sam’s family. She understands that living through homelessness requires resilience, resourcefulness, and strong problem-solving skills.
- she learns that Sam’s mother, despite their current situation, is actively involved in community support networks and has extensive knowledge about local resources and services.
- invites Sam’s mother to share her knowledge about community resources with other parents during a parent workshop, highlighting her expertise and contributions.
- learns that Sam’s family has a tradition of storytelling and often shares stories about their cultural heritage. Ms. Garcia invites Sam’s mother to tell a story to the class, celebrating and valuing their cultural background.
- creates a “family wall” where each child can bring in photos and share stories about their family. This helps Sam and other children feel proud of their backgrounds and promotes understanding and empathy among classmates.
- invites Sam’s mother to join the parent advisory committee, recognizing her insights and experiences as valuable contributions to the school’s decision-making processes.
- organizes a “skills day” where parents can lead activities based on their unique skills and experiences. Sam’s mother, who is an excellent cook, leads a cooking activity, teaching the children how to make a traditional dish.
Funds of knowledge are the diverse cultural and experiential knowledge that students bring from their home and community environments. This concept recognizes these assets as valuable resources for learning, helping educators connect curriculum to students’ real-life experiences and enhancing educational engagement and relevance.
Case Study (C)
Mx. Taylor is an elementary school teacher who has a new student, Alex, who identifies as non-binary. Mx. Taylor wants to create an inclusive classroom environment that recognizes and values Alex’s unique experiences and knowledge. They
- take time to learn about Alex’s interests, experiences, and the knowledge they bring to the classroom. This includes understanding Alex’s gender identity and the experiences related to it.
- have a conversation with Alex and their parents to learn more about Alex’s hobbies, such as their interest in storytelling and creative writing, and how they express their identity through these activities.
- design a writing project where students create their own stories. Alex’s contribution includes stories featuring non-binary characters, which helps broaden the perspectives of their peers.
- include books and resources in the classroom library that feature non-binary and LGBTQ+ characters and themes.
- collaborate with Alex’s family and the broader community to bring in additional resources and perspectives that support Alex’s learning and well-being.
- ensure that classroom activities and groupings are not based on gender, allowing all students, including Alex, to participate comfortably and equally.
In an ethnographic study in Geneva, Switzerland, Jean-Paul Payet and Fabien Deshayes (2019) found that, while teachers and schools adopt language about multiculturalism and diversity, they oftentimes approach families through a deficit-based lens, especially when it is combined with poor school results and when parents have little knowledge of the institution and its expectations. Even though a family may view culture and ethnicity as a resource, as a fund of knowledge, the teacher or school may not truly recognize it as such. This results in distrust of the school and teachers. It decreases caregiver participation.
Pause to Reflect!
Reflect on a time when cultural humility, cultural capital, and/or funds of knowledge were integral to the outcome of a school or community based discussion.
- Was the outcome positive or negative?
- Were all stakeholders collaborative and equitable?
- Recommend additional strategies for highlight cultural humility, cultural capital, and/or funds of in that discussion.